a guy friend have just proposed to his gf and receive a “yes”… but he still wants to know, from the minds of women, y is proposal such an important event? y is it a must for us girls to have a guy proposing to us….
i wonder too….for me, i want him to propose because to me, the whole marriage thing is like a 3-step process; propose, engage, marry. so, to jump straight to the end of it is like “wat’s the rush?”. for me now, i am viewing the proposal as a test… this guy really does love me that much to go do something like this, or is he taking me for granted that i will definitely say yes, so no need to propose. tell me, which girl doesn’t like to feel special? if it’s all so mechanical, i don’t see the need to say “I do” at the end of the day, it’s just not worth it…for me, the proposal is as important as the marriage… if u don’t get it right this time, u will never get it right the next time…
